Richard : There are two primary aspects of pleasure for men when in a sensual, sexual or intimate situation. The feeling of being approved of ( receiving reciprocal touch from the other female or male) and the pleasure Richard (cont): of ejaculating ( unconsciously satisfying the need to give ourselves a chance in securing our genetic lineage through either impregnating a female or simply getting rid of the stale sperm in order to re stock the larder!). Jane: Perhaps the need for approval is tied into needing women to describe sex as orgasmic. Like the social behaviour of wanting someone else to have a drink or cigarette (when we are having one) otherwise we feel inherently judged or disapproved of (guilty conscience). Celebrating our ability to enjoy eroticism