Marion: Hi Jane, My experience with orgasm by masturbation is that its pretty much guaranteed. That comes with the provision that I dont bother to do it unless Im already in the mood (not always the case with sex with a partner). Though I will have one that way, with clitoral stimulation and fantasy, it will not be a very powerful one. Marion (cont): It will be enjoyable, it might provide me with a good story to write about later (my fantasy often just pops into mind, not replayed experience) it might get me in the mood for sex but it would never be what I might call psychologically fulfilling. That kind of orgasm, for me, comes only with a partner. Marion (cont): It may be because it can take a long time, I become super sensitised so when it happens, I go off with a bang. It may be that the addition of another person adds to the fantasy as they might hold me in a certain way, for instance, or new environment, that gives me fuel for a fantasy. We might have sensual play for hours beforehand that heightens the mood. Marion (cont): Also, a partner can keep an orgasm going for far longer than I would on my own as well as multiple orgasms. On my own, I have one, I enjoy it and the pleasant glow afterward, then Im done. I will absolutely confirm orgasm with a partner is possible, achievable & blissfully divine. Mind you, they can be very ordinary too. Marion (cont): I agree, women take much longer to orgasm than men. Though in my own experience, men do have the ability to last longer than two minutes. Also, I agree that women come infrequently from intercourse. However, a woman can orgasm very successfully from clitoral stimulation. Marion (cont): Where a woman masturbating might give herself a lovely orgasm, she probably will not be tempted to give herself two or three in a row. I know from personal experience that it is possible to have multiple orgasms, in succession, from clitoral stimulation provided by somebody else. Dedicated to womens enjoyment of sexual pleasure