Rick: I’m 58 years old and married for 35 years!!! Don’t have much sex now! Only had one affair, and that was 20 years ago. Now I have met this beautiful 22 years old girl online. She sends me nudes! I’m kind of worried because she wants me to send my nudes! Do you think that’s safe to do that? JANE: What do you mean by safe? What do you fear might happen? Whether your wife or your colleagues see what you’re doing, I have no idea. Cam girls etc are providing an act. Anyone can send these pictures. It might be a man. Best to try dating in real life then at least you know it’s a human being you’re talking to! Rick: It’s absolutely true, we don’t know who’s on the other end. I love sex but it’s so hard to find someone at my age. This girl is gorgeous but as you said we don’t really know who we are talking to. She’s been sending these pictures and we talk at the same time while I masturbate! Do you know of any safe sites for married people to meet and talk about sex? JANE: You need to differentiate between real women & porn. If you want porn then generally you have to pay. Real women don’t usually want to talk about sex. Men are easily manipulated by women who claim to want sex but this is just a fantasy. Porn can become an addiction & this is where you have to be careful that you are not pouring money down the drain. Of course, you may be enjoying it but … Rick: Hi Jane, how are you? All is going well for me, how about you? Life has been wonderful for me lately I have met this young model and we have been trading nude pictures by email! She’s only 24! JANE: Dream on most of these are fakes! Rick: Do you mean the photos are fakes or the people sending them? I like to watch porn once in a while, and only when I want to see a good blow job, and a good anal performance! And there’s always free videos online to watch. Rick (cont): And to be honest, when it comes to talk about sex I prefer real women to porn girls. It’s more fun!!! Is that make sense to you? Hope we can continue to communicate with each other… I always love your feedback, because you are an expert… and you seem to be a very nice person as well!!! JANE: Unless you meet someone in person you have no idea who you are corresponding with. This is a big money maker… Rick: It’s true that a lot of the girls we meet on line are no good, and you are absolutely right… but you know, I block the bad ones asking me for money. I don’t fall for that nonsense. I have met a few. Now I have met this girl, and she seems to be alright, and wants only fun!!!! We talk about sex and share nudes! So far so good never asked for money. So nice talking to you. Dedicated to womens enjoyment of sexual pleasure