
JANE: Religion involves following guidelines set down by ancient peoples who lacked a scientific understanding of the world. People followed unquestioningly the wisdom laid down in laws made by men in line with male interests. JANE (cont): Women have never been permitted to lead any religion. They have been expected to obey men’s supposed greater knowledge of the world. Science is the opposite of religion in that it involves challenging ageold beliefs. JANE (cont): Female sexuality is the domain of women and men should have little say in defining it. Men’s role is to listen to what women say and respond to women’s need for respect, affection and caring behaviours. If men did that, they might get the sex they want. Basiran: Thank you for sharing your thoughtful perspective. I sincerely appreciate your contribution and your longstanding commitment to research and public discussion on issues of human sexuality, gender, and social awareness. Basiran (cont): I value the emphasis you place on critical thinking, gender equality, and the recognition of womens autonomy, which are indeed important concerns in contemporary society. Basiran (cont): However, I believe that discussions of religion and science should be approached in a more proportional and balanced manner, rather than being simplified as if the two are always in direct opposition. JANE: Sex education should explain how we enjoy sexual pleasure. Men enjoy sex fairly automatically. Women need information to understand their sexual and emotional responses. JANE (cont): Pornography is highly misleading in this respect because it portrays women responding to the stimulation that men provide in line with male fantasies. Women need to understand that sexual responsiveness is a characteristic of male reproductive function. JANE (cont): Men have a sex drive; women do not. Women are not equipped to respond instinctively with a lover so they must employ conscious behaviours if they want to please a man. Research indicates that women orgasm JANE (cont): by masturbating alone when they respond to erotic fantasies. But this capability is extremely rare. Most women never orgasm throughout their whole lives by any means. Sex involves emotional connection for women with a caring and respectful lover. An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all