Jay: Have you read Kama Sutra? How does it relate to the research findings and your experience? JANE: Was it written by a woman? If not, I doubt that it has anything to do with my experience. Men experience sex entirely differently to women. Intercourse is an act of impregnation and provides for male pleasure. Women are not aroused by genitals or sexual opportunities as men are. JAY: The gender of the writer should not affect the quality of the sexual knowledge. JANE: I’m sorry but if you can find any woman even one who can explain how women enjoy the same pleasure from intercourse that a man does, I would be very grateful if you could ask her to contact me. JANE (cont): In years of discussing sex on the internet, most women refuse to comment. The key is mental arousal. Women are not erotically aroused with a lover. Can you name any female erotic turnons? Jay:A woman needs three things: Affection, Attention and Appreciation. JANE: Sure but none of those things assist with orgasm, do they? They are not erotic stimuli that might cause arousal. Women want loving companionship and platonic love. JANE (cont): They are offended by men’s sexual urges, by genital stimulation and erotic fantasies. Women want romance (affection, kissing and caressing). They want a partner to care about them. Jay: (silence) An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all