JANE: Talking to women about female orgasm Veronica: The best feeling! JANE: Do you mean orgasm?If so, how do you achieve it? What turnons & stimulation do you use? Can you be explicit. Veronica: Yes, I mean having an orgasm is absolutely among the best feelings. Its like an out of this world experience where nothing else matters. I am a lucky girl because I have never had trouble getting orgasms. Being a very sexual person, Im really not that hard to please. Veronica (cont): I achieve it by clitoris stimulation, but also through penetration. I can get orgasms by getting licked and fingered as well. If Im by myself I will normally use my own imagination as turnons and my hand for stimulations. Sometimes I can also use porn. JANE: There are a few women who claim to have easy orgasms but none of them have been able to explain how they achieve it. I am happy for you if you enjoy sex but I doubt very much that you are having orgasms. Do you use fantasy? When and how do you use them? Veronica: I use fantasies a lot when masturbating. It can be quite innocent, like what I want to do with my boyfriend next time I see him (or what I want him to do with me) or more extreme things that I dont necessarily want done in real life. JANE: I think you do not understand the nature of erotic turnons. These are the concepts/objects/experiences that we use consistently to achieve orgasm by any means. You are referring to a variety of anatomy. The stimulation of intercourse does not continue to orgasm for the receiver. JANE (cont): As I said I do not believe you are having orgasms. It is easy for a woman to claim to orgasm. But the anatomy needs to be consistent and the turnons need to make sense. Orgasm is a response to eroticism and you have not mentioned any erotic turnons. What causes your mental arousal? Veronica: I don’t believe that there is a specific recipe that is needed to have an orgasm. It’s just about various ways of provoking these muscle contractions that are an orgasm. Pretty funny that you think you know better than me if I’ve had an orgasm. Veronica (cont): Orgasms are not necessarily a response to eroticism either. There are women who have orgasms when they give birth and others who have orgasms at the gym because muscles in the pelvic region are stimulated. Celebrating our ability to enjoy eroticism