Ahsan:Hello I want your help ! I get discharge early before entering in vagina. Please help me! Please! Please help me! JANE: Premature ejaculation is relatively common due to extreme arousal. You need to grow older, have sex more often or find ways to slow down arousal. There is a squeeze technique to delay ejaculation during masturbation. But I am not a man so I can only tell you what I have been told. Ahsan: Thank you so much for replying! How to slow down arousal? I am 35 years old. Divorced. I will get marry in couple of months and I am worried. JANE: A woman wants upper body lovemaking kissing & caressing. Genital stimulation is only important to a man. You will get some practice. Use masturbation as a means of controlling ejaculation. JANE (cont): Why don’t you masturbate before having sex. That way you can wait to become aroused a second time. You need to forgo some pleasure of your own to practise how to last longer. These are just suggestions. Ahsan: Yeah you are absolutely saying right! You know I am Muslim and in religion Islam if we do second time intercourse we take bath to be clean. So if I masturbate before intercourse we will have to take bath before intercourse. Ahsan: Any other way to last longer and increase sex timing? You are really very kind. Any Herbal medicine? How to control my mental while doing sex. Perhaps related to mental anxiety? Ahsan: Actually, I was good at sex but the divorce happened. I was depressed too much. Please humbly request help me. I live in Pakistan. Your suggestion is like a star twinkling on the sky! JANE:No problem! Women like being clean before sex anyway. We often start sex with a shower or even have sex in the shower. Ahsan: I am an advocate. Yeah. Very tense condition. How shall i survive? Now I am going marry a girl who she is just 18 year and I am 33. It will be embarrassing if I will discharge just before starting intercourse. JANE: If she is 18, she has little experience. She won’t know what to expect. As I said, women prefer kissing & caressing over genital stimulation. So she is never going to miss intercourse. Intercourse is a male goal & pleasure. Celebrating our ability to enjoy eroticism