Margreta: Gazing at my lover and kissing him is a turn on for me. JANE: You are referring to the sensual and emotional aspects of sex. I am talking specifically about erotic turnons that assist with orgasm. JANE (cont): Men, for example, may get turned on by womens breasts. But they dont generally use the look or feel of a womans breasts to achieve orgasm. They need to focus on something much more explicit. JANE (cont): I am asking women to suggest the male sexual anatomy and the sexual activity that they find arousing enough to reach orgasm both alone and with a lover. Dedicated to womens enjoyment of sexual pleasure