Charles: I have always had a huge complex about not being able to satisfy a women through intercourse. I’m curious about what makes orgasm the most difficult for women. If a man could last longer, could a woman then have an orgasm? Or is time not the problem but rather poor stimulation? Would oral sex be a good substitute? JANE: Women are not mentally aroused with a lover. Can you name any female erotic turnons? Without arousal, there is no tumescence and physical stimulation is not effective. Intercourse can never cause female orgasm because it ceases with male orgasm when a man ejaculates. Marc: I’m a man who doesn’t believe in the lies of pornography. I want to know what a woman really feels in genitals during intercourse. I read on your website that a woman feels very little or nothing, is that true?? JANE: Alfred Kinsey talked to thousands of women and concluded:There is, however, no evidence that the vagina is ever the sole source of arousal, or even the primary source of erotic arousal in any female. JANE (cont): all the evidence indicates that the vaginal walls are quite insensitive in the great majority of females.This insensitivity of the vagina has been recognized by gynaecologists who regularly probe and do surface operations in this area without using anaesthesia. Marc: Thanks Jane!Okay So seems… the vagina doesn’t have nerves. What about the entrance to the vagina? Is there any sensitivity there during thrusting? Tom : Hello Jane,, I have two concerns1. So, the woman is not responsive to a lover regardless of the activity? (oral sex, masturbation..?)2. What is meant by ‘indirect clitoral stimulation’? Is it stimulation or is it just political talk?Thanks so much for helping people. JANE: Dear All, Please read my content on my websites. Do your own research if you do not believe me. Find a woman who can explain how she achieves these orgasms men think women should have. I haven’t got time to answer the same questions about intercourse over and over again. Laura: Jane, I’m so sorry. I shared your email on my sexology classroom’s drive so everyone could read your work. But I didn’t know you’d get so many emails! I’ve already sent a message stating that you won’t be responding to any more emails. I’m so sorry, it was my fault! JANE: No problem. I get a lot of guys pretending to be women. You need to educate your male classmates in the fact that intercourse is an act of impregnation. The pleasure is primarily male. A woman may enjoy emotional pleasure if she feels loved and respected. JANE (cont): These are important messages in sex education. Your teacher should highlight the need for the receiver (male or female) to give consent. The receiver does not enjoy the same pleasure as the penetrating male. This is why only a penetrating male pays for sex. An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all