Joe: Thank you for attempting to bring greater understanding to human sexuality and relationships. The false social construct that women are naturally more passive sexually is one of the main factors (if not the main factor) contributing to the 50% divorce rate in industrialized countries. JANE: Thanks for your interest in my work. The information I provide comes from the research that has been done. Many people cannot accept the facts, logic and research findings that explain sexuality. A person needs a certain personal maturity, relevant sexual experience and the emotional objectivity to learn with an open mind. Joe: My inclination is to agree with your claims. My marriage of 28years is partially based (sexually anyway) on your claim. I have no reason to disagree with you. Your claims support the widely held belief that women are naturally more sexually passive. That is the most common belief supported by most institutions, including the psychology and psychiatric establishment. JANE: These beliefs are supported by Kinseys research. The penetrating male always pays for sex. The receiver (male or female) doesn’t pay because of the demand from men who want penetration. A man needs to imagine being the receiver to understand that the key erotic pleasure of penetration is enjoyed by the penetrating male. Celebrating our ability to enjoy eroticism