JANE: I am interested in lesbians sexual motivations but also what sexual activity they enjoy over the longer term. I would differentiate between sensual or emotional stimuli and those that are erotic. Rosalinda: If orgasm happens, that is fabulous. But if it doesnt, its no big deal because it was all so good anyway. I dont think there is a need for any activity to be focused on orgasm. Orgasming is not such a priority for lesbians as they seem to accept that orgasm is not easy. Rosalinda (cont): Rather, the goal is connecting with each other very intimately and making each other feel good. Of course, lesbians engage in penetration (both anal and vaginal) with a fake penis. That depends on the woman and if she is into that. It also depends on the womans mood. Rosalinda (cont): If she is in the rare mood of wanting to feel filled, then it is certainly used. But it is not used as the end act but rather as an aid leading up to clitoral stimulation. When I use penetration with a woman, I use my fingers (with short cleanly groomed nails of course) or sometimes a fake penis. Rosalinda (cont): But I use penetration as a way of building up sexual pleasure. I enter the woman with the fake penis (if that is what she wants) but use it to stimulate her clitoris and vulva. I have it strapped on and rub the fake penis up and down her vulva or I use my hand. Rosalinda (cont): Often we place the fake penis between our vaginas and simultaneously rub ourselves against it. There is so much more I can say that Ive done with women but I hope this captures the idea. I agree that sexual pleasuring does change when there is no pressure of mens desire for intercourse. Rosalinda (cont): A piece of information to make you laugh I have a fake penis with the intention of pleasing women with it. But theyve never wanted it or requested it! So it is covered in dust and cobwebs. On a serious note, the use of penetration with a fake penis has been rarely used in my experience. Typically, it is used for external stimulation of the vulva and clitoris. Celebrating our ability to enjoy eroticism