JANE: There is no research to prove that anyone can use a vibrator to orgasm. A few women boast about orgasm & we believe them. Tom: Interesting wording. Generally scientific research doesnt aim to prove things but rather to show correlations between things in order to draft a theory or model to help predict or show how reality works. I dont understand the point you’re trying to make. JANE: The point is that we are easily persuaded by women who boast about orgasm by any which way. But typically these orgasm claims are not backed by research findings of any kind. People tend to be political & emotional rather than scientific when discussing sexuality. Tom: Any singular orgasm event would be anecdotal so you wouldn’t need to do research as to whether or not a singular woman had an orgasm or not. I did find studies that looked at correlations between orgasm and its impact on sexual pleasure. So studies have been done. JANE: Most women have no idea what orgasm involves. For example, it is not just about physical stimulation. Most women do not appreciate this. They think that if they stimulate some sexual anatomy rarely specified they will have an orgasm. They do not realise that arousal is vital. Tom: The claim your making is most women cannot nor do they know how to make themselves orgasm. Plus most women dont know how to arouse themselves? Are you trying to say female orgasm is a myth? I’m really confused here. I don’t understand the points you’re trying to make. JANE: I have been working on this topic for 20 years & you expect to understand it in 5 minutes without doing any research. You need to inform yourself. If women had orgasms, then we would know for sure what anatomy was involved. Tom: If you had the knowledge you claim to have you should be able to explain it to people who don’t know it in a more concise way. I’m not trying to be combative but what you’re telling me does not comport to the reality I live in. You also dont seem to be aware of sexual studies. JANE: I am explaining but you don’t get it female orgasm is rare. You need to pay attention to what women do not what they say. Porn is censored in every society because women dislike eroticism. Women are sexually passive due to lack of arousal. Tom: Two studies conducted among nationally representative samples of adult American men and women show that vibrator use during sexual interactions is common. JANE: They are talking about use of vibrators not orgasm. Men don’t need a vibrator. I personally find them totally ineffective. The stimulation of a vibrator replicates no naturally occurring stimulation technique. How can woman evolve a response to something that has just been invented? They are also stimulating the wrong anatomy. It doesn’t make any sense. Tom: You’re not going to find absolute truth in a scientific study but correlations.The study about womens vibrator use affirms what many doctors and therapists have known for decades that vibrator use is common, its linked to positive sexual function such as desire and ease of orgasm, and its rarely associated with any side effects. Debby Herbenick. JANE: Surveys are marketing ploys. Men don’t use vibrators for orgasm. Women rarely appreciate that orgasm arises from mental arousal. Very few women understand that orgasm is a response to eroticism. Even female sexologists talk of emotional factors. How does that work with a vibrator? Dedicated to womens enjoyment of sexual pleasure