JANE: Women dont tend to ask nor will they always allow a lover to stimulate their genitalia, which is no evidence of pleasure let alone orgasm. Carmen: The long and winding road to womens orgasm. Nobody can define it or even help a bit to the way we should follow. It just happens or not. We dont know when, we only know if we are attracted and ready or not. JANE: Women are not erotically aroused with a lover. No one can orgasm without being first aroused. Orgasm is a sexual release of accumulated mental arousal. This only occurs for a woman when masturbating alone in my experience. An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all