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The clitoris is the one and only female sex organ

To state the obvious: men have no organ equivalent to the vagina. Male orgasm rewards men for the reproductive act of ejaculation but there is...

The sexual anatomy involved in female orgasm

Because she targeted female masturbation specifically, Shere Hite’s sample included even more women (82%) who masturbated (compared with Kinsey’s sample). Yet even though such...

Women’s conscious use of sexual fantasy

Unless she masturbates to orgasm a woman is unlikely to appreciate that orgasm relies on psychological turn-ons. But equally if she has never had...

Arousal mechanisms are not unique to one lover

Mental turn-ons (both fantasies and fetishes) are abstract concepts and objects. They are not personalised or limited to one individual. So if a man...

Orgasm depends on a positive response to eroticism

Many women (30% of Kinsey’s sample or about 1,800 women) openly acknowledge that they are never or rarely aroused. So it is unlikely that...

The Quality Aspects of Orgasm Rely on Turn-Ons

Prostitutes, swingers and bluffers may talk nonchalantly about techniques for pleasuring a man. But women rarely refer to the turn-ons they use to achieve...

Women’s responses do not need to be sociable

Surveys are inherently flawed where there is a bias in the acceptability of the responses. Frankly it is amazing that any woman ever admits...