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A man is responsible for stimulating a woman to orgasm

I have never been embarrassed about sex. On the contrary, I enjoyed erotic fiction as a teenager and had high expectations for my sex...

The function of foreplay is to assist with female arousal

Just about everyone assumes that they already know everything there is to know about sex and sexuality. Even though they have never had a...

Women depend on a lover to stimulate them to orgasm

We often hear sex educators blaming men for ignoring women’s presumed sexual needs. But why women are so incapable of obtaining their own sexual...

Women are constantly aroused and orgasmic with a lover

People are amazed when I question the orgasms actresses are portrayed as having in pornography. They cannot believe that anyone would doubt the fiction....

Women orgasm from clitoral stimulation (cunnilingus)

Sexologists assume (as everyone else does) that women should orgasm in all the scenarios where men orgasm. These are (1) masturbation alone (the precise...

Women orgasm from vaginal stimulation (intercourse)

Intercourse is an act that men are motivated to initiate. A woman simply accepts or rejects male advances. It is the same throughout Nature....

Women can masturbate themselves to orgasm with a lover

Pornography shows women masturbating themselves (or being masturbated) with a lover. Yet no one in the general population is ever truly interested in the...