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Some men expect women to make sex ‘exciting’ for them

Some women approach sex with romantic illusions. They expect a lover to be so aroused by their body that he ‘sweeps them off their feet’ with his sexual passion. They may not accept the need to offer any more turn-ons. [i] Women’s ‘responses’ with a lover are driven by social attitudes. For example, in the…

The G-spot explains the orgasms women think they have

Inexperienced women explore various parts of their body before discovering orgasm but most women (84%) masturbate by stimulating the clitoris. Yet some women today will still buy G-spot wands and phallic vibrators. [i] There are some sex experts who refer to clitoral stimulation as if it can be directly substituted for vaginal stimulation. They imply…

Talk of orgasm does not necessarily lead to more sex

Ironically (because only men’s responsiveness declines with age) women are often more sexually active when younger. Once a woman has children she is much less motivated by sex. Women are more confident about admitting that intercourse does not cause orgasm as they age, by acquiring status or wealth or through education. Women today say they…

Only some women think they orgasm through intercourse

When we talk about ‘consensual sex’ who exactly is consenting and what are they consenting to? Women may consent to intercourse [i] but consent is a long way off sexual pleasure and no proof that a woman has an orgasm. Heterosexual lovemaking, for the most part, relies on a man stimulating a woman. Genital stimulation…

Women’s Minds Respond to Fewer Erotic Turn-Ons

Male orgasm is most usually associated with erotic stimuli.[i] Yet it is sometimes suggested incorrectly that female orgasm relies on emotional stimuli. This misunderstanding arises because women tend to associate sexual activity with a loving relationship. It is in fact the very different levels of men and women’s sexual responsiveness that cause the sexes to…

Women’s responses do not need to be sociable

Surveys are inherently flawed where there is a bias in the acceptability of the responses. Frankly it is amazing that any woman ever admits to being non-orgasmic. The turn-on explains the bias. But given female masturbation is so rare why do so many (relatively) of these women volunteer? The answer is in the research findings…

The symbiotic relationship between men and women

When living in an environment devoid of sexual stimuli (such as one without women) most men cease all forms of sexual activity. For example, the arousal cycle of men who are locked up in prison with no access to any kind of visual media (magazines, television and internet) grinds to a halt. [i] This illustrates…