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Women have more reason to invest in a relationship

Young women cannot possibly imagine the challenge of a sexual relationship spanning decades. They experience sex through spontaneous and romantic interludes. Long-term relationships take effort on both sides. They are not a whirlwind of sexual passion from beginning to end. Men are easily tempted by promiscuity. The male is driven to engage in penetrative sex…

Men want sex more than is required for reproduction

Most men are tempted by any sexual opportunity. Some women say that sex is orgasmic but they do not initiate sex more than other women.[i] The modern assertion that women are capable of rape indicates the lack of understanding of the nature of male sex drive and of intercourse as a mating act initiated by…

Female sexuality today is defined by male fantasies

Men’s state of arousal means they approach sex with a clear agenda. [i] Women are not easily aroused which is why they talk about emotional sensations. Even in pornography a woman provides a passive receptacle for semen (accepting the penis into her mouth, vagina or anus). Women rarely demonstrate sexual initiative. For example, they do…

Emotional Bonding: Women Are Meant to Be Unresponsive

It is often assumed that every woman is able to orgasm just as easily and as frequently as men do. Yet no research supports this view. It is clear from the research that women orgasm much less often than men do. [i] Kinsey’s work was the first exposé of women’s covert sexuality (women’s masturbatory and lesbian…

Understanding women’s sexual and emotional needs

Sadly researchers are often just as impressed with far-fetched accounts of female orgasm as the general public. Academics debate pure conjecture such as ‘female ejaculation’ [i] (copious quantities of vaginal juices produced by aroused females) based on age-old male fantasies and ‘up suck’ of sperm (pelvic contractions supposedly arising from ‘vaginal orgasms’) as if they…

Female Sexuality – A New Perspective

Humans have sex in order to reproduce, to enjoy the intimacy of sexual pleasure and to form the emotional bonds that support family life. Reproduction is the prime purpose of sex. So sex is usually presented in terms of intercourse, in which female orgasm plays no role, but which as a mating act defines the…

Women Deserve an Unbiased Account of Their Sexuality

We have appallingly bad sex information today because those who are reassured by mysticism far outnumber those swayed by facts or logic.[i] You would think it was a crime to question the many contradictions in the modern portrayal of women’s sexuality. Anyone old enough to have sex thinks they already know it all. But we…