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Women have more reason to invest in a relationship

Young women cannot possibly imagine the challenge of a sexual relationship spanning decades. They experience sex through spontaneous and romantic interludes. Long-term relationships take effort on both sides. They are not a whirlwind of sexual passion from beginning to end. Men are easily tempted by promiscuity. The male is driven to engage in penetrative sex…

Arousal mechanisms are not unique to one lover

Mental turn-ons (both fantasies and fetishes) are abstract concepts and objects. They are not personalised or limited to one individual. So if a man finds the female breast to be an ‘object of desire’ then potentially he can be aroused by the breasts of any woman (not just those of his lover). Likewise if a…

The pressure on women to ‘respond’ to intercourse

Only women have ever been described as ‘frigid’ (meaning cold). An unenthusiastic lover is a turn-off and causes a man to feel unappreciated.[i] Men approach relationships with unrealistic expectations set by fictional media such as pornography, which depicts a fantasy world where women take the sexual initiative. If a woman is honest, many men go…

Women Are Not Spontaneously Aroused As Men Are

Men are easily aroused because their minds frequently focus on sexual opportunities. Nudity (especially genitals) triggers the male brain to anticipate a potential opportunity for intercourse. Women’s minds are not naturally aroused so they do not respond easily to physical stimulation.[i] Misconception #2: Because of the male experience, it is incorrectly assumed that women are…

Married men have sex more often than single men do

In the movie ‘Bad Boys’ (1995) a married cop gives his opinion “That’s what married means. It means you sleep together but you can’t get none!” Despite the complaints, research indicates that married men have more sex [i] than single men do. Men may look for other pleasures when they pay for sex but they are…

A woman may offer intercourse when she feels respected

After fifty years of marriage one woman told me she had never been interested in men. Men tend to seek women out. Women don’t need sex but also they get affectionate companionship from girlfriends and their children. Men often overlook the wider relationship after decades together. [i] There are many more men looking for casual…

Women take on all the key risks of intercourse

Research indicates that almost all men are sexually active throughout their lives regardless of whether they are in a relationship. Women in relationships, in addition to never or rarely masturbating, for the most part engage in sexual activity initiated by their partner. Single women do not have intercourse as often[i] or with as many partners…