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Heterosexual relationships involve mismatched sex drives

Men are naturally responsive. So no man should feel inadequate about ejaculating quickly. [i] Men accept the misconception that women might be able to orgasm through intercourse if stimulated long enough because they want to prolong their own enjoyment of intercourse. Any sense of inadequacy over male speeds to orgasm could be easily overcome if…

Women prefer implicit explanations for orgasm

A few women have been observed in the laboratory to orgasm multiple times or with minimal stimulation. But such women are incredibly rare. Many of these cases have more in common with a nervous disorder or some kind of fit than a sexual release. If someone experiences orgasm like the ticking of a clock (or…

Orgasm depends on a positive response to eroticism

Many women[i] (30% of Kinsey’s sample or about 1,800 women) openly acknowledge that they are never or rarely aroused. So it is unlikely that the rest of the female population is as sexually responsive as men are. You cannot teach someone how to produce an orgasmic response. We discover orgasm because we have the necessary…

The pressure on women to ‘respond’ to intercourse

Only women have ever been described as ‘frigid’ (meaning cold). An unenthusiastic lover is a turn-off and causes a man to feel unappreciated.[i] Men approach relationships with unrealistic expectations set by fictional media such as pornography, which depicts a fantasy world where women take the sexual initiative. If a woman is honest, many men go…

The Quality Aspects of Orgasm Rely on Turn-Ons

Prostitutes, swingers and bluffers may talk nonchalantly about techniques for pleasuring a man. But women rarely refer to the turn-ons they use to achieve mental arousal with a lover.[i] This issue is vital to understanding why these orgasms are not reproducible by women who masturbate. Misconception #5: Because of the male experience, it is incorrectly…

Bisexuality indicates an ambivalence over lovers

Although men have varying levels of sex drive (which affect the frequency with which they want sex) once a man engages in specific genital stimulation he most usually does achieve orgasm. [i] For men, physical stimulation leads to orgasm because they are easily aroused especially with a lover. A man’s sexual emotions involve his drive…

Women assume they should orgasm with a lover

Prostitutes are more experienced than most women. Yet even they admit that they do not orgasm with clients.[i] A woman who claims to orgasm with a lover is either interpreting orgasm in emotional terms or she is using orgasm as a reward for her lover’s commitment to the relationship. Heterosexual men have difficulty identifying with…