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Bisexuality indicates an ambivalence over lovers

Although men have varying levels of sex drive (which affect the frequency with which they want sex) once a man engages in specific genital stimulation he most usually does achieve orgasm. [i] For men, physical stimulation leads to orgasm because they are easily aroused especially with a lover. A man’s sexual emotions involve his drive…

Intercourse is a demonstration of male virility

Although prostitutes the world over pleasure men, none are called ‘great lovers’. Equally a man does not ‘make love’ to a prostitute. Male lovemaking is a behaviour used to persuade a woman to accept intercourse.[i] Men want a lover to be motivated to engage in intercourse so they focus on women’s responses to lovemaking. Men…

The clitoris is stimulated until climax but no more

Men’s focus on the vagina[i] is natural given their sex drive (to impregnate a female). To experience orgasm a woman needs a lover who understands the anatomy involved in female orgasm. This includes the clitoris, the labia and the entrance to the vagina. Lesbians share the same anatomy as their lovers so they know what…

Women are turned on more by fantasy than reality

Men are aroused by thinking about sexual activity with someone they find attractive. Only two thirds (69%) of women ever have erotic fantasies. The rest (31%) admit that they have never once been aroused by thinking about eroticism. They are not even aroused by thinking about their own partners. But this makes sense because women’s…

Sexual pleasuring techniques a man may enjoy

A woman who lies fairly inert during sexual pleasuring communicates a lack of cooperation and causes a man to feel sexually unappreciated. Both social and sexual interaction rely on the active interest of the participants. In women’s eyes men can seem impossible to please. But men wonder why women do not provide them with the…