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Emotional bonding

Women are intended to be unresponsive

Women have more reason to invest in a relationship

Young women cannot possibly imagine the challenge of a sexual relationship spanning decades. They experience sex through spontaneous and romantic interludes. Long-term relationships take effort on both sides. They are not a whirlwind of sexual passion from beginning to end. Men are easily tempted by promiscuity. The male is driven to engage in penetrative sex…

Women’s Minds Respond to Fewer Erotic Turn-Ons

Male orgasm is most usually associated with erotic stimuli.[i] Yet it is sometimes suggested incorrectly that female orgasm relies on emotional stimuli. This misunderstanding arises because women tend to associate sexual activity with a loving relationship. It is in fact the very different levels of men and women’s sexual responsiveness that cause the sexes to…

Men are motivated by intercourse not by orgasm

There is an amazing lack of tolerance for any discussion of sex that does not involve promoting women as the sexual equals (or superiors) of men. Confident of the full backing of heterosexual society women defend their sexual ego against any information that might explain a gap (between expectation and reality) that they are not…

Intercourse is a demonstration of male virility

Although prostitutes the world over pleasure men, none are called ‘great lovers’. Equally a man does not ‘make love’ to a prostitute. Male lovemaking is a behaviour used to persuade a woman to accept intercourse.[i] Men want a lover to be motivated to engage in intercourse so they focus on women’s responses to lovemaking. Men…

Men want sex more than is required for reproduction

Most men are tempted by any sexual opportunity. Some women say that sex is orgasmic but they do not initiate sex more than other women.[i] The modern assertion that women are capable of rape indicates the lack of understanding of the nature of male sex drive and of intercourse as a mating act initiated by…

Our Biological Motivation to Engage in Loving Relationships

Research also indicates that for activities not involving men women take longer to orgasm. It is only when having sex with men that women are assumed to match male speeds to orgasm (two minutes on average).[i] Misconception #7: Because of the male experience, it is incorrectly assumed that women should orgasm more easily with a…